Knowing the Character Type

It is very hard to know people well and it would take a long time to observe a man and interact with him before you can get to know the real inner self . We have broadly four types of personalities: the first is the optimistic, then comes the introvert, then the aggressive and the last is the cool and quiet category. Different types of people would react in different ways and if we can analyze and get to know them well it would be easier to get along with them. We often neglect the difference between all types of people and sometimes will meet with great difficulty with the relationship. No wonder when I met a very peculiar person, his friends told me that I have innocently tripped upon a bee-hive and will get chased by the angry bees until thy Kingdom comes and his description or metaphor is very very dramatic and very true indeed.

That proud genius is really trying to pursue this matter without end in sight and it seems he has nothing better to do than giving you all the trifles and pesterings just like a small naughty stone throwing old boy.

An Unforgettable Experience

When I was still young I once joined a group of voluntary trade union members to help a poor family to cut some rubber trees for firewood. I was at that time a rather weak and never did any hard work. When other people were taking up heavy logs, I tried to follow suit. But unfortunately, I coudl hardly lift up a medium log. Eventually I did manage to put it on my shoulder but to carry it to about 200 yards away was too much for me. Others saw clearly that I was struggling with my shaking feet, one offered to come to my assistance and took over my load. I was ashamed and I realized that I could not undertake hard labour .

Taking side!

When it comes to controversial matter, we usually will tend to take side or have a stand. When there are two sides to the bargain, I think it only human to take side. In the case of two in the wrong, we will take the lesser evil. Compared to homosexual person, a rapist would be considered worse than a homosexual because when two grown-up people voluntarily engage in their private relationship , then what they do are pertaining to themselves whereas in the case of rape it is a crime against the one forced to a rape. So also when a woman who is unmarried has a relationship with a man also unattached, when there is any exposure to the public of their intimacy due to leakage of private photoes, the guilt is not so much compared to the case of rape and murder of a woman. That is why when the blogger makes hue and cry over the former while keeping deaf and dumb to the latter, I wonder whether he is sensible or just pretends to be fair (to both sides as he stated in his blog). It is a real pity that he makes no differentiation between the outright murder and the leaking of a private photo.

Try Living A True Retired Golden Age

The old age is generally referred to as golden years. It is important to live with meaning and good health. It is good to observe all the rules and habits of healthy and stress-free life. If we can move about try visiting parks, resorts and friends. Get away from the crowded market places and supermarkets. Go into open air and nature to appreciate the birds, wild animals, insects, bees and butterflies and dragon flies. Don't get into unnecessary arguments and heated exchanges to avoid negative emotions as much as possible. The experiment that two pots of flowers with one getting praises and the other getting all the curses is quite interesting. So another golden rule is try to give praises and good words and save any anger or emotional outburst for good human relationship and for our own good as well as those who interact with us. So bless you when you can successfully live a true golden life for the remaining years to come!

Portrait of a Monster!

No matter from what angle you see him he is not an ordinary man. You would normally see him as a born loser except that he still tries to make his presence known by writing his blog which he has built to boost his self-adoration and admiration of a big man in history of the hornbill country. Since his young days, he has been a loner and buried in books with great imaging that he would be a great writer. He had tried to chase a classmate but failed to capture her heart with his poor outlook and negative image. He also tried to apply for scholarship but failed to get any as his results were not good enough. He joined the activists in the underground movement but escaped to foreign country when he found it too harsh a life for his middle class background. So coming to old age , he has very few friends and lives like a hermit except for his blogging in the internet trying to paint a brilliant picture of a justice himself while pointing an accusing finger at anyone not kowtowing to his nonsensical talks. Born loser he is and woe to him!